Friday, July 24, 2009

THE DAY Has Arrived!!!

My wedding day is HERE! I cannot tell you how thrilled I am. The past fourteen months of knowing Ben have been so wonderful, I am looking forward to getting to know him over a lifetime.

The rehearsal and rehearsal dinner went off without a hitch yesterday. When I went to get my hair done yesterday she spent 45 minutes giving me a scalp treatment. I have always had psoriasis really bad, and she wanted to make sure that none of it would be in my hair in my pictures. I got many compliments on my hair (pictures will be coming soon, I promise!).

My sister-in-law was awesome in making sure that the rehearsal ran smoothly, since she has done wedding coordinating before. That was a huge help. My mom has been a little stressed, but overall things have run well. My friends Mandi and Penny have planned the itinerary for the last two days so that everything gets done. I am blessed to have such good friends.

I just finished printing out an insurance claim for the expenses that I racked up while staying at a hotel waiting for my air conditioning unit to be replaced, and I signed my name. I just thought, WOW....this is one of the last times I will sign my name that way. That is so crazy!

Ok, on to a weight related topic....THE SCALE. I am not taking it on the honeymoon. As a matter of fact, I have figured up that I will not weigh myself for seventeen days. This is a huge thing for me. I have weighed myself every single day (always first thing in the morning, and before bed....but sometimes many more times throughout the day, although I have really gotten better at only weighing twice a day in the last six months) since I had my WLS. While the scale has brought a great deal of anxiety in my life, in many regards it has brought a good amount of comfort too. By comfort meaning that I'm ok, and I'm not going to return to the weight of 393.6 pounds EVER AGAIN. This is going to be a good break for me, even though it will be difficult. I have a man who adores me, and I have my clothes to judge on how I am faring weight wise.

Off to get MARRIED!!! Look for a post Monday from our nation's lovely capital.

6 comments:

ChiTown Girl said...

Oh happy day!! Congratulations, Tiffany. I'm so happy for you both! You probably won't read this today (Friday) but if you do, and you have about 3 minutes to spare, click over to my place and watch the video I posted. It'll make you smile!

ChiTown Girl said...

Oh my gosh, I just realize that you already changed your "about me." That's so sweet!

Lisa Williams said...

I am so happy for you. I am praying that everything goes smoothly. Bless wishes

Bandita Senorita said...

CONGRATS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

PrettyWoman said...

Best Wishes Tiffany!!!!

steph said...

I'll be praying for you tomorrow and next week! So excited for you, and can't wait to see pics of your big day!! Best wishes and congratulations!!! :)