There is a guy I used to be pretty decent friends with. We hung out a good bit of time. We had tons of mutual friends. Life happens, people drift in and out of our lives. Enter Facebook. I've reconnected with tons of people, and I love it. I reconnected with a bunch of our mutual friends. I have asked this guy 8-10 times to friend me, and have never been accepted. I know that he uses Facebook regularly because he comments on our mutual friends pictures and status updates.
Yesterday morning, after telling HH about this, I decide to send him a message on Facebook. It was very short. I just asked if I had done something to wrong him, and if there was a specific reason why he would not be my friend on Facebook. I said that I thought we were pretty decent friends by the amount of time we hung out for two years together. Then I ended the letter.
I know I am opening up a can of worms, and that there is a good chance that I won't get a response, but I really would like to know. The only possible thing that could be holding this back would be if my old roommate had said something negative about me, but I really don't see that happening. We didn't end our time together on bad terms.