Wednesday, May 12, 2010

Finding Balance

HH and I are talking about balance.  Just a few months ago, I was really upset telling him how I don't feel like I belong at our church, and how I wanted to make some friends.  I'm slow at making friends, and I've never been a hang out in a big group kinda gal.  I like small groups, or just an individual couple to hang out with.  HH went to work and started arranging time for us to spend with others.

I know that we need time with other couples, time alone, and time together.  I don't want us to spend so much time with others that we are not getting enough alone time.  I suggested to HH that maybe we just take some time off this summer.  With how "go go" things have been, the nights that I have been able to stay at home with HH, I have really started to cherish more and more.  I just want to stay "aware" and make sure that we strike the right balance for us as a couple.

1 comment:

Seth said...

My wife is slow at making friends too - i understand what you're talking about.