I presented at a conference today.  One of the coaches at a school I used to work at saw me, and congratulated me on my weight loss.  She had lap-band three years prior.  She asked what size I wore, and I told her 10.  After lunch, she came up and asked to talk with me. 
I could see the tears forming in her eyes, and it broke my heart.  She started talking about how successful I had been with my surgery, and how at three years out, she still is twenty pounds from goal.  I whipped out my calculator on my cell phone, and pointed out to her that she had lost 87.7% of her excess weight.  Then I also mentioned how many lap-band patients gain a significant portion of their weight back, and here at three years out she had not.  She said she had all these skin issues, so I pulled her in the bathroom before my session started and I showed her mine.
I think in the end, she walked away comforted, and feeling better about her accomplishments.  This losing weight and maintaining weight is a tough, tough battle....lets be gentle towards one another guys.
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