tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8303315598056093516.post9195439516534038168..comments2024-03-15T03:28:37.878-04:00Comments on Change is Good...Changing for Good!: How Do Your Fat Friends Treat You Now?Little Chef On The Prairiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03855253373859654107noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8303315598056093516.post-68744353090811103242007-11-06T08:24:00.000-05:002007-11-06T08:24:00.000-05:00That is such an interesting question. When I thin...That is such an interesting question. When I think back on it, I didn't really have a lot of fat friends. I was typically the token fat girl. In college though, I did have a couple of overweight friends who had really wicked senses of humor and sharp tongues and they were really like a protective buffer, y'know, no one dared make fun of us because the leader, this girl named Nicole, would verbally shred them. I haven't seen those friends in years and I can't imagine that we could be friends if I were skinny at the time. I don't think it would have ever worked.<BR/><BR/>What I do find I have problems with are people who aren't fat, per se, but who were previously a healthy weight, but who have recently become 20, 30 or 40 lbs overweight. They are the ones who are seemingly putting some distance between us. I don't know if it is jealousy or maybe they think that I will lose so much weight that I will no longer be the fat one anymore and it might be them. I don't know. I do admit to being a little oblivious about it sometimes, but every now and then their actions catch my attention and I can't help but wonder what's really going on.Tia L.https://www.blogger.com/profile/05637950407007847381noreply@blogger.com